Actually, the Nikon AF-S NIKKOR 85mm f/1.8G is your best bet. It’s a full-frame FX lens so it fits perfectly. 85mm is better than 50mm for portraits because it compresses the background more, which helps with that blur you want. It's sharp as hell and way under your $800 limit, leaving room for a used Nikon AF-S NIKKOR 50mm f/1.8G if you still want a backup lens too.

Will the ceremony be indoors or outside? Im very satisfied using the Nikon AF-S NIKKOR 50mm f/1.8G since the wider aperture handles dark auditoriums while staying way under your $800 limit.

^ This. Also, I actually had a different experience when I started with my big camera. I totally get why people love the longer lenses but honestly I found it kinda frustrating in tight spots. I ended up way more satisfied with a shorter one because:

• I didnt have to shout across the park to tell my niece how to pose.
• It was way lighter to carry around for hours during the graduation.
• The view felt more natural... like how I actually see the scene. I used the Nikon AF-S NIKKOR 50mm f/1.8G for a similar event and was so happy with the results. The background was still plenty blurry but I could actually fit the whole outfit in the shot without being a mile away. The longer one is great for some but I felt like I was always backing into walls. Just my experience tho.

> Regarding what #6 said about "Interested in this too"

• Basically, this thread boils down to the 50mm for versatility vs the 85mm for that creamy background look. I have owned the D850 since launch and tried dozens of lenses on it. If you want that specific blurry effect for a graduation, the Nikon AF-S NIKKOR 85mm f/1.8G is the only one that really delivers for what you want to spend. Ngl, people spend way too much on brand new gear. Since so many pros are switching to mirrorless right now, these F-mount lenses are all over the used market for cheap. In my experience, you could probably find both that 85mm and a Nikon AF-S NIKKOR 50mm f/1.8G used for under $500 combined if you look on eBay or MPB. That way you have the 50mm for tight indoor shots and the 85mm for the nice outdoor portraits. If you gotta pick just one tho, go with the 85mm. It makes people look better and the background just melts away... plus it fits your D850 perfectly without any extra parts.

Huh interesting. I had no idea. The more you know I guess 🤷

Man, you picked a beast of a camera! I've used the D850 for years and it still blows me away every single time. Honestly, for that beautiful blurry background you're after, the 85mm is the absolute winner for portraits. I remember shooting my nieces graduation last year and the way it separated her from the crowd was just magic! It's a super reliable setup that wont let you down when the pressure is on. Just to make sure you get the right one tho:

• Will you be mostly outside where you have space to move around, or stuck in a tight indoor seating area?
• Do you think you'll want to get full-body shots or just close-ups of her face? You're gonna have a blast with this camera once you see what a prime lens can actually do!

I had a bit of a rough start with my D850 too because it picks up every tiny flaw. I tried the Sigma 85mm f/1.4 DG HSM Art thinking it would be the ultimate portrait lens, but it was just so heavy and I kept having focus issues where it would back-focus constantly. It was really disappointing when I got home from a shoot and realized half the shots were soft because the lens and camera werent talking to each other right. For your nieces graduation, you really dont want to be messing with that kind of frustration. I ended up going back to the Nikon AF-S NIKKOR 85mm f/1.8G because it just works. The 85mm is definitely better for portraits than a 50mm because it doesnt distort the face as much. When you get close with a 50mm, people start to look a bit weirdly wide... not great for a graduation photo she will keep forever. The 85mm gives you that compression which basically pulls the background closer and blurs it out way more than the 50mm ever could at the same settings. I tried doing a shoot with just a 50mm once and I had to get so close to the subject that it made them feel awkward. The 85mm lets you stand back a bit and makes everyone look way more flattering. Its not as fancy as the expensive f/1.4 glass but id rather have a lens that actually hits focus every time.

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